બેઠક Bethak

વાંઢાની સરસાઈ નખે, ને બાયડીની સરસાઈ દુઃખે.

vāṁḍhānī sarasāī nakhē, nē bāyaḍīnī sarasāī duḥkhē.

Literally
A bachelor's superiority is in his nails, and a married woman's superiority causes pain.
What it means
Settling for an imperfect peaceful state is better than suffering through continuous conflict.
The English proverb Shah set beside it
Wisdom prefers an unjust place to a just war.

Also said as

  • વ્હાલાં ધારે તેવું વેરી પણ ન ધારે.
  • વ્હાલાં હોય તે કડવું પાય.
ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1921) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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