થઇને રહીએ (કાઇના) કે પોતાના કરી લેઇએ.

thainē rahīē (kāinā) kē pōtānā karī lēiē.

Literally: Either stay as someone's humble servant or make them your own.
What it means: Success in relationships requires either complete devotion and submission or winning someone over entirely.

Also said as

ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1921) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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