તારી રીસ ને મારો સંતાપ.

tārī rīsa nē mārō saṁtāpa.

Literally: Your anger and my grief.
What it means: Said when one person's anger or resentment only brings grief and distress to those who care about them.

Also said as

ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1923) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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