સાસરાનું માન સાળીઆએ, જમણનું માન થાળીઆએ;

sāsarānuṁ māna sāḷīāē, jamaṇanuṁ māna thāḷīāē;

Literally: The respect of the father-in-law's house is due to the brother-in-law, the respect of the feast is due to the plate.
What it means: The honor of a place or event depends on the key people or elements associated with it.

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ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1923) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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