રમાડ્યું કાઈ ન જાણે, રવરાવ્યું સૌ જાણે.

ramāḍyuṁ kāī na jāṇē, ravarāvyuṁ sau jāṇē.

Literally: Nobody notices when you pamper someone, but everyone notices when you ruin them.
What it means: Acts of care often go unremarked, whereas spoiling or mishandling someone draws immediate public criticism.

ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1921) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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