રામ ધણી, કે ગામ ધણી.

rāma dhaṇī, kē gāma dhaṇī.

Literally: Is God the master, or is the village the master?
What it means: A dilemma of whether to follow divine law or yield to local social pressure and authority.

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ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1923) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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