- Literally
- A first wife is as she is, but a remarried one must be chosen after careful inspection.
- What it means
- While one must accept their first spouse regardless of flaws, any subsequent choice must be made with extreme caution.
Also said as
- પરણાવતાં સાસુ હરખાયાં, પછી સાસુ હડકાયાં.
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