પરણેલા નહી પણ જાને તો ગયલા.

paraṇēlā nahī paṇa jānē tō gayalā.

Literally: Not married, but gone to the wedding procession.
What it means: Being involved in an event or situation without having the actual status or commitment.

કહેવત સમુદાય (Kahevat Samuday) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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