પારકા ધણી પાછળ સતી થવું.

pārakā dhaṇī pāchaḷa satī thavuṁ.

Literally: To commit sati after another woman's husband.
What it means: Sacrificing oneself or suffering grief for someone with whom one has no personal connection.

Also said as

ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1921) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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