પંથ વર લાગે હાડ, બીજા વર લડાવે લાડ.

paṁtha vara lāgē hāḍa, bījā vara laḍāvē lāḍa.

Literally: The first husband takes the bones, the second husband gives the love.
What it means: Life experiences change a person's perspective on relationships.

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ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1923) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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