પંથ વર ભાગે હાડ, બીજ વર લડાવે લાડ.

paṁtha vara bhāgē hāḍa, bīja vara laḍāvē lāḍa.

Literally: A journey-groom breaks bones, a second husband pampers with affection.
What it means: A woman often receives gentler affection and care from a second husband than from her first.

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ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1921) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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