પહેલાં લડાવ્યાં લાડ, પછી ભાગ્યાં હાડ.

pahēlāṁ laḍāvyāṁ lāḍa, pachī bhāgyāṁ hāḍa.

Literally: First fondled with love, then broke the bones.
What it means: Spoiling someone with excessive affection initially, only to treat them with extreme harshness later.

Also said as

ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1923) ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1921) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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