પડોશી સાથે લડવાનું ખોટું-આવ પડોશી આપને લડીએ; પડોશી કહે લડે મારી બલા. જવાબ-બલા તો તારેજ ઘેર. એથી લડાઇ શરૂ થઇ.

paḍōśī sāthē laḍavānuṁ khōṭuṁ-āva paḍōśī āpanē laḍīē; paḍōśī kahē laḍē mārī balā. javāba-balā tō tārēja ghēra. ēthī laḍāi śarū thai.

Literally: Fighting with a neighbor is wrong—come neighbor let us fight; the neighbor says fight, my trouble. Answer—the trouble is at your own house. From this the fight started.
What it means: Arguments often start from trivial provocations and escalate due to mutual stubbornness.

કહેવત સમુદાય (Kahevat Samuday) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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