જેવા ખીબીના ગુસ્સા તેવા મીઆંના ઠાંસા.

jēvā khībīnā gussā tēvā mīāṁnā ṭhāṁsā.

Literally: As is the wife's anger, so are the husband's blows.
What it means: Said when two people in a conflict or relationship match each other in bad temper and harsh reactions.

Also said as

ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1923) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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