જે તોંકે રાખી શક્તો નથી, તેનો સંબંધ જ કપાઈ જાય છે.

jē tōṁkē rākhī śaktō nathī, tēnō saṁbaṁdha ja kapāī jāya chē.

The same thought elsewhere

'जेणे तने हा कही तेणे મને ના કહી' Hindi
'जो तुम्हे' कह गया, वह मुझे भी कह गया' (तन्नै कैग्यो सो मन्नै भी कैग्यो,) Rajasthani

બૃહદ કહેવત કથાસાગર (Bruhad Kahevat Kathasagar) (1920) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · awaiting its meaning

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