બેઠક Bethak

ગૌર પરણાવી આપે, પણ ઘર ચલાવી આપે નહીં.

gaura paraṇāvī āpē, paṇa ghara calāvī āpē nahīṁ.

Literally
The matchmaker gets them married, but does not get the house run.
What it means
A facilitator can start a process, but they cannot sustain the daily work required to maintain it.

Also said as

  • દલાલ સોદા કરાવી આપે, લેવું દેવું ધણીએ ધણીને.
  • માબાપ દલાલ છે, આખા ભવના જમાન નથી.
ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1923) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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