દીકરીની મા મલીદા ચોળે, દીકરાની મા બેડી ઝુરે.

dīkarīnī mā malīdā cōḷē, dīkarānī mā bēḍī jhurē.

Literally: The daughter's mother rubs sweet pastry, while the son's mother grieves in chains.
What it means: Said to contrast the relative peace of mind of a daughter's mother with the constant worries and burdens faced by a son's mother.

ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1923) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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