ધાઈને મળીએ નહીં, ને અળગા રહીએ નહીં.

dhāīnē maḷīē nahīṁ, nē aḷagā rahīē nahīṁ.

Literally: Do not go by force, and do not stay far away.
What it means: Maintain a balanced and moderate distance in social relationships.

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ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1923) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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