છાશમાં માખણ જાય અને વહુ ફુવડ કહેવાય

chāśamāṁ mākhaṇa jāya anē vahu phuvaḍa kahēvāya

Literally: The butter goes off in the buttermilk and the daughter-in-law gets called careless.
What it means: The loss happens and the blame lands on whoever is easiest to blame.

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