છાસમાં માંખણ જાય તો વહુ પુત્રડ કહેવાય.

chāsamāṁ māṁkhaṇa jāya tō vahu putraḍa kahēvāya.

Literally: If the butter goes out with the buttermilk, the daughter-in-law gets called careless.
What it means: The blame lands on whoever is lowest in the house.

કહેવત સમુદાય (Kahevat Samuday) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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