ચાર બેસે ચોટલા તો બહારના ભાંગે ઓટલા.

cāra bēsē cōṭalā tō bahāranā bhāṁgē ōṭalā.

Literally: Four sit down to plait each other's hair and outsiders' verandas get broken.
What it means: A gathering that starts as gossip and ends in someone's ruin.

કહેવત સમુદાય (Kahevat Samuday) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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