ભાભોજી ભારમાં, તો વહુ લાજમાં.

bhābhōjī bhāramāṁ, tō vahu lājamāṁ.

Literally: If the father-in-law is in a burden, then the daughter-in-law is in shame.
What it means: The behavior and reputation of the head of the household dictate the conduct of the rest of the family.

Also said as

ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1923) ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1921) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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