બધામાં ભાગ હોય, પણ રંડાપો સુવાંગ (સ્વાંગ)જ હોય.

badhāmāṁ bhāga hōya, paṇa raṁḍāpō suvāṁga (svāṁga)ja hōya.

Literally: There can be a share in everything, but widowhood is entirely one's own.
What it means: One must bear one's deepest personal griefs and misfortunes entirely alone.

ગુજરાતી કહેવતસંગ્રહ (Gujarati Kahevat Sangrah) (1923) · read from the scan by machine — the Gujarati itself is unchecked · English is machine-made and nobody has checked it yet

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